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Hey doms, how do you reward your subs?

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Many people who are not familiar with BDSM mistakenly think that BDSM relies on punishment to get people to obey. Well, it's a very one-sided view. Punishment does exist extensively in BDSM relationships, but if you really get into BDSM, you will find that discipline is more important than punishment, and punishment is just one of the ways to maintain discipline. And maintaining discipline is not all about punishment,  appropriate rewards are also important. Many experienced dominators know that appropriate rewards are a positive reinforcement to maintain or emphasize discipline — instead of punishing your  submissive,reward your  submissive for good behavior or for following the rules to make them more compliant and committed to discipline. Believe it or not, rewards are important, and in a BDSM relationship, punishment is a way to let your submissive know what is wrong, but they need to know what is right. Your submissant needs the right encouragement to realize that they

Seriously, why do lesbians use strap-on dildo since they don't like men

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(Love is borderless) What is a strap-on dildo ? Strap-on Dildo is a sex toy that includes a dildo and harness. The main use is to attach the dildo to the harness, and then the wearer puts the harness with the fixed dildo on the hip and then has sex. Strap-on is mainly used for penetrative sex, which can be either vaginal sex or anal sex. Strap-on dildo is not limited to lesbians. When a woman wears strap-on to penetrate a man, the act is known as pegging . View more on why straight men like pegging   How do lesbians usually have sex?   A lot of people have the misconception that since lesbians don't like men so they don't need sex and they usually just kiss. Well, we can't blame them, after all, most schools and parents tell their students or kids that sex is about a man's penis going into a woman's vagina.. Love is simple and pure, lesbians are also normal people, they also have sexual desire in front of the people they love. Basically, there'

Spice Up Your Sex Life! Using Light BDSM As Foreplay During Sex

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    What is Light BDSM When it comes to BDSM, many people's first impression is extreme and painful. Well, that's not exactly true. It would be inaccurate to assume that all BDSM scenes involve the imposition of extreme pain.  Indeed, many of the BDSM scenes are extreme or unacceptable, including whipping, caning, needles into the skin, dripping hot wax directly on the skin, choking game, enema and hundreds of other forms of erotic expression, many of which you may find difficult to imagine. But don't be frightened and afraid. In fact, the extent of BDSM can be controlled. Recall that when you and your partner were having sex especially with doggie style did he ever spank you or squeeze your butt? Did you love it? If so, congratulations, you have experienced light BDSM and already liking it! Tickling, spanking with hands, put on a blindfold, tie your partner to a bedpost with a tie, and verbal teasing such as "call me sir" or "you dirty little Kitty

Novel experience! 5 Straight Men Tell Us Why They Like Pegging

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You may have heard of pegging, but in case you haven't, pegging is a sexual act in which a woman wears a dildo to penetrate a man. Pegging may come as a surprise to you because it is not anal sex between gay males. It refers to anal sex between a man and a woman, except that in this case the man is the one being penetrated. In fact pegging has become more and more common in daily life. In the TV series Broad City, Abbi Jacobson penetrated his male neighbors with strap-on dildo. (TV series Broad City) When Roomfun first launched the Strap-On Dildos series, we assumed that the customers for the series would be mainly lesbian couples. But to our surprise, we received many emails from male customers asking questions about strap-on dildos. After talking with these male customers, we finally knew why they would buy strap-on dildos. (Double vibrator strap-on dildo) Here, 5 straight male customers from Roomfun share their experience with pegging (They were informed and consen

The Six Most Ccommon Sensation Play: What And How To Do It Safely?

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Sensation play is an act of conveying feelings to the body, thereby causing pleasure. In fact, sensation play is so ubiquitous in sex that every one of us may have experienced sensation play in sex. Think of the gentle touch on your body from your partner during sex, the moment his wet tongue ran crosses your nipples, have you ever been sexually aroused by those actions?  Did your legs burn with desire? The purpose of sensation play is to enhance the pleasurable sensation of all senses during sex, so sensation play includes impact (spanking or hitting with tools), wax play, pain, temperature, restraint, smell, figging sight and electroplay. The following are the 6 most common sensation play and how to do it safely . 1. Wax play Wax play is a kind of temperature play. Wax play is to drip hot wax onto bare skin to entice excitement and sexual arousal. The candles on the market that are suitable for wax play are generally low temperature candles at 127.4 degrees Fahrenheit, th

Six Safety Guidelines Before Starting A BDSM Play

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When you are first introduced to BDSM game, you may be thrilled or nervous or even uneasy.   “Will my partner hurt me?”,  “What if my partner does something deadly to me"…. In fact, as you learn more about BDSM, you will find BDSM can be done safely. BDSM is not dangerous in most cases (except for extreme BDSM games) , but if you lack relevant knowledge and refuse to do some research and follow the BDSM's rules, you're likely to hurt yourself or your partner. Therefore, it is important for you and your partner to learn a few safety guidelines before starting a BDSM game! Rule No. 1 | Knowing the SSC" principles SSC Principles refer to “Safe, Sane, and Consensual”, which are the basic principles of BDSM games and the philosophy of BDSM players safe: attempts should be made to identify and prevent risks to health. sane: activities should be undertaken in a sane and sensible frame of mind. consensual: all activities should involve the full consent of all parties involved

3 BDSM Toys For Beginners

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Fifty Shades of Grey is an excellent romantic BDSM film. In the film Christian Grey's playroom has a huge selection of BDSM toys and furniture, which is surprising and eye-opening. As a new BDSM player, you don't have to own as many BDSM toys as Christian Gray, but there are few basic BDSM toys you can not miss! 1. Handcuffs Handcuffs are the most fun, most practical toy in BDSM play. Also it is the simplest way of exchanging power — the moment you put them on, you become someone else's slave. There are roughly three types of handcuffs: rubber, metal and leather. For BDSM beginners, leather handcuffs with fluff are the most recommended, they are comfortable and soft, and can be worn for a long time without damaging the skin. There are also many different combinations of handcuffs that are worth exploring. (Handcuffs) More different handcuffs 2. Blindfolds Scientifically speaking, when your vision is deprived, your other senses become more developed and sensitive. This theor